Sara chose her ideology over her talent because she will only play reflections of herself and that will only get her the small roles that go with that.
You're only concerned about who they are because you clearly have no idea who you are.
Clearly not all her friends knew hence her coming out during movie night.
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Do you see how that works? Ramirez says she is feeling more confident and sexier than ever now in the knowledge that she is enough.