Where do I go from here? I favor a thick, water-based lubricant or silicone lube for anal sex, and applying it to the penis or toy, the b-hole, and inside the hole, since penetration often reaches deeper than the rim area.
You could relax, get loose, gape after, post the video to a porn tube, and then tighten back up.
If Congress raised the porn-participation age, I doubt the courts would favor the marginal First Amendment interests on the other side.