I just thought it was a startling example of including a familiar story situation, asking how the character s involved would actually feel, think, and act, then simply not using the conventions that don't fit.
Treating women with dignity is no guarantee of success nobody owes you anything for being a non-horrible, baseline decent human being , but it sure improves the odds.
Depending on the sex scene, it can be unsettling, disturbing, nostalgic, romantic, primal, etc.